What Is Emotional Health?

Emotional health is a person’s ability to accept and manage feelings through challenge and change. Someone who is emotionally healthy can allow their emotions to be digestible. The mundane hassles of daily life offer opportunities to practice responses rather than reactions to allow emotional health to flourish.

Overall health includes physical, emotional, intellectual, social, and spiritual aspects. When they are in balance and alignment, human beings thrive. Each of these areas of life will influence the others.

Emotional health includes both emotional intelligence and emotional regulation. Emotional health is thought to be present when the subjective experience of emotions is appropriate over a sustained period. The positive effect will be apparent in mundane, daily activities.

The construct of emotional well-being lies within the broader understanding of mental health. The lack of emotions does not equal emotional health, just as the lack of mental illness does not equal mental health. Someone suppressing emotions, especially from childhood, may not be as emotionally healthy as someone vulnerable enough to express their feelings.

Daily life offers a continuous series of ups and downs. Like ocean waves, our days come with highs and lows. An emotionally healthy individual can ride the waves of feelings without being disrupted by a big, emotionally disruptive wave.

Taking into consideration differences in material wealth and individual life circumstances is essential. Having financial means to more efficiently self-manage emotions makes emotional health more easily attainable. Environmental factors do influence the ability to express feelings.

Emotional distress leaves people susceptible to physical illness. Some studies have shown that ailments like cardiovascular disease and immune system repression can be linked to emotional distress (Stewart-Brown, 1998). Studies on emotional distress and the underlying neurological circuitry indicate a connection between substance abuse and other dysfunctional behaviors (Sinha, Lacadie, Skudlarski, & Wexler, 2004).

There is potential emotional distress around every corner. Someone who practices a healthy, vibrant lifestyle will be better able to handle big waves when the swell builds. Like a physically fit lifestyle, the long-term benefits are abundant.

9 Characteristics of the Emotionally Healthy Person

Self-awareness is a characteristic of emotional health. When needed, an emotionally healthy person can look at the self and redirect emotions to navigate distress or joy.

This ability develops throughout childhood but can be strengthened, like a muscle, in adulthood.

Working hand in hand with self-awareness is self-acceptance. Emotionally healthy people accept themselves and can handle adversity with clarity. An emotionally healthy person might even allow themselves space to have a “behind closed doors” temper tantrum to allow anger to move through them.

High levels of self-care are present in those who experience emotional health. Self-compassion and care for one’s physical body are essential to people who also emphasize emotional health. Care for the whole self is intentional and regularly practiced.

Another characteristic of an emotionally healthy person is emotional agility. An emotionally healthy person is not immune to setbacks or adversity. However, thriving through difficulties is possible with an open mind and a curious thought process.

Having strong coping skills is another characteristic of an emotionally healthy person. Practicing these skills when times are calm will result in higher levels of resilience when things are not so quiet. It’s like preparing for battle. Adversity is inevitable because this is real life. Emotional capital is what you build when at peace.

An emotionally healthy person treats others with kindness and integrity. They do so without expectation of reward. They interact with the people around them with curiosity and compassion.

Living with purpose is another characteristic of an emotionally healthy person. People living on purpose will think about their inner experiences less and focus on how their experiences can serve others. They allow emotions to pass with acknowledgment and release them in favor of a larger picture.

An emotionally healthy person manages stress well and regularly practices moments of serenity. Good leaders get calm when circumstances get chaotic. Self-mastery requires the same.

Real-Life Examples

The world is full of opportunities to practice emotional health. Time is our most precious commodity, yet we continue to underutilize it for our well-being. Emotionally healthy people find balance and thrive through adversity.

Consider Emma, for example:

Emma is a self-motivated career woman. Her inner drive and work ethic are admired and celebrated regularly at her job as a stockbroker. She perseveres through levels of high stress and constant changes in the market. Her navigation of being a woman in a predominantly male profession takes grit. People speak about her in terms of determination and willpower.

This is surface, Emma. Beneath what is seen is how she interacts with the people at her local market. She is kind and friendly. Her daily meditation practice keeps her appreciative of the calm presence. Emma regularly invests time in connecting with her loved ones. Though she works hard, long hours, she creates space for herself to build self-awareness and peace.

Emma takes good care of her physical body. Her worth is not self-measured in the numbers she brings in for her company. Emma accepts that mistakes will be made but does not allow them to derail her progress.

In this example, the chaotic and ever-changing world of the stock market could create a powder keg of emotions. Pressured by time and successful outcomes could put Emma into a state where she snaps at everyone around her.

Without emotional health, she could develop unhealthy coping mechanisms like abusing drugs or alcohol. Stress could deteriorate her hippocampus, causing her decision-making to become compromised. Being emotionally healthy helps Emma show up in her life every day as her higher self.

Consider Ted:

Ted is a therapist. He sits with others’ experiences of trauma all day long. He holds space for others to heal and seek pathways to their emotional health. Ted feels the pain of his patients because he is empathetic. Ted then goes home to his loving family and serves as a supportive husband and father. He even acts as the baseball coach for a little league team.

This is surface, Ted. Beneath his exterior, Ted is deploying strategies for emotional health all day long. Ted uses his empathic ability at work as a slide rather than a sponge. In between therapy sessions, Ted takes intentional glances at his positivity portfolio. Ted exercises to keep his body healthy and fit during his free ti.

When Ted is with his family, he is present. He gets frustrated, like any other parent, but he is fully aware of and speaks his values to his family while encouraging them to do the same. They are active in their church and have a solid spiritual faith.

In this example, Ted is in a profession with a high burnout rate. Without emotional health, his livelihood would not be sustainable in the long term. Ted’s use of a positivity portfolio raises his positivity ratio, enabling him to flourish despite consistently negative affect on his patients.

Without emotional health, Ted could fall into habits where he neglects his family and himself. His emotionally healthy lifestyle allows Ted to show up as his higher self.

Why Is Emotional Health Important?

Being human means facing challenges. Suffering is one thing that all human beings have in common. This is why emotional health is so important. We will all face adversity in our lifetimes.

Social interaction and integration are necessary parts of daily life. People with optimal emotional health can appropriately interact with others in times of stress or peace. Without emotional health, many emotional disruptions could develop and physical ailments.

Take a moment to imagine the types of behaviors that occur when someone lacks emotional health. This doesn’t necessarily mean mental illness. Someone without optimal emotional health likely shows signs of stress. They may verbally snap at those around them.

Emotional health matters to all ages, everywhere.

4 Facts and Proven Benefits

There are plentiful benefits to emotional health. What makes someone emotionally healthy will vary from individual to individual. Here are some points and proven benefits that you could weave into your emotional well-being today.

According to the World Health Organization, depression is one of the leading causes of disability and affects 264 million people (James et al., 2018). Low rates of emotional health are directly linked with rates of depression. The ability to explain emotions with an optimistic explanatory style aids people in preventing depression (Kowalenko et al., 2002).

Emotions’ repression directly impacts physical and psychological health (Patel & Patel, 2019). Holding disruptive emotions in favor of an appropriate outward appearance contributes to lower overall well-being. Overused emotional regulation can be problematic and disruptive. Rates of anxiety and depression are soaring because of the lack of ability to express emotions.

Studies have shown that spiritually healthy people live longer lives (Chida, Steptoe, & Powell, 2009). It is purported that individuals with a higher level of spiritual health also show higher instances of emotional health. A holistic approach to fitness benefits interweaving areas of health to overall wellbeing (Hawks, 2004).

Perceived time pressure causes stress and negatively impacts emotional well-being (Gärling, Krause, Gamble, & Hartig, 2014). Impediments to goal progress are affected by time pressure. Teaching people effective time management may lead to improvement in emotional health.

Emotional Health vs. Mental Health

Many people use the terms emotional health and mental health interchangeably.

However, there are marked differences.

The World Health Organization has taken steps to create a robust definition of mental health.

Mental health is a dynamic state of internal equilibrium that enables individuals to use their abilities in harmony with the universal values of society.

Basic cognitive and social skills; the ability to recognize, express, and modulate one’s own emotions, as well as empathize with others; the flexibility to cope with adverse life events and function in social roles; and harmonious relationships between body and mind represent essential components of mental health and contribute, to varying degrees, to the state of internal equilibrium (Galderisi, Heinz, Kastrup, Beezhold, & Sartorius, 2015).

Mental health has its benefits, which conscious intentions can realize. Emotional health may be said which contributes to global wellbeing. Human beings experience both positive and negative emotions. Emotional health enables people to share and express those emotions without becoming stalled within them.

Empowering children with a vocabulary for emotions and the ability to speak about them is vital. Fully processing emotions and constructively utilizing them are skills that will help kids for the rest of their lives. Though we cannot live in a constant state of happiness, knowing how to navigate the full range of emotions is essential.

When emotional health is in jeopardy, it is always encouraged to seek help. If you or someone you know cannot express their emotions appropriately, counseling is a great place to start. A skilled counselor will provide a safe place to express feelings.

5 Ways to Improve and Maintain Your Emotional Health

Practicing mindfulness is a way to improve emotional health that is offered in a wide variety of activities. The benefits of mindfulness are plentiful and well documented. Conscious improvements in mindfulness practices provide fuel for resilience.

Nurturing social connections is another area used to improve and maintain emotional health. A landmark study found that a lack of social connection impacts your well-being more than smoking or obesity (House, Landis, & Umberson, 1988).

Social connection creates a positive feedback loop for well-being, manifesting in social, emotional, and psychological impact. You don’t have to have many friends, but you need a few reliable, supportive friends to reap the most benefit.

Adding measures to manage stress is another way to improve emotional health. Effective time management, physical exercise, and accepting that there will be things we cannot control can reduce our stress levels.

Read our related post for more on recognizing the symptoms of stress.

Appropriately expressing your emotions is another way to improve emotional health. Some people enjoy journaling. Others enjoy chatting with friends or loved ones.

Practicing putting words to the emotions flowing in and out of our lives helps us release those emotions. There are many ways to express feelings creatively.

Improvement in self-awareness will improve emotional health too. Reflecting on what patterns of negative expression are present is a great place to start. This introspection can lead to an improvement in emotional regulation and emotional intelligence.

7 Activities

To move toward lives that are flourishing, Barbara Fredrickson (2009) encourages people to raise their positivity ratios with her broaden-and-build theory. A percentage of three positive emotions for every one negative emotion takes work.

One of the fun and helpful activities suggested in her book, Positivity, is the positivity portfolio.

A positivity portfolio is a collection of positive emotions: joy, gratitude, serenity, interest, hope, pride, amusement, inspiration, awe, and love. Through a series of questions, you can walk through these positive emotions and then gather “artifacts” to cultivate those emotions, fueling resilience.

Based on her book, the Build An Emotions Portfolio is a beneficial tool for building that positivity portfolio and improving emotional health.

A Meditation for Radical Acceptance is a helpful activity to build emotional awareness and acceptance. Allowing space for emotions to be explored is a powerfully transformative activity. Any form of meditation is likely worthwhile. If this one doesn’t suit you, many options exist.

There are many ways to reduce stress. The following activities are simple changes that can be made in your daily life to reduce stress and the detrimental reactions to that stress.

Prioritize physical exercise
Eat a balanced diet
Improve sleep hygiene
Practice deep breathing exercises
Increase opportunities for flow states

Seek social connections to improve your emotional health. Reach out to the people in your life who have made a difference for you. Send them a note or call them if it’s impossible to meet with them in person. Cultivate your friendships and social connections with loving kindness.

Assessing Emotional Health With Useful Questionnaires, Tests, and Scales

The DEES is a test used to measure how someone regulates emotions. It has many versions and has been used in empirical studies. It is used to measure someone’s self-reported measures of subjective emotional ability (Hallion, Steinman, Tolin, & Diefenbach, 2018).

Explicitly used for mindfulness are these functional tests and questionnaires.

Though the Satisfaction With Life Scale was developed to give a global view of life satisfaction, it can also help understand a client’s cognitive judgment of life satisfaction. It could help build awareness.

The MAAS is a scale to measure one’s mindfulness.

The Mental Health Continuum – Short Form was developed to measure emotional wellbeing (Keyes, 2002). This scale measures three different forms of wellbeing: emotional wellbeing, social wellbeing, and psychological well-being.

The scale has been empirically proven across cultures and has been translated into a variety of languages. Permission to utilize this scale can be requested via email.

7 Relevant Questions for Your Sessions

When working with clients, asking questions about their emotional health is helpful. Here are a few questions that can help.

How do you express your emotions?
Who supports you socially?
What role does positivity play in your day?
What makes you avoid “losing it?”
What are your time management strategies?
Describe your relationship with anger.
How do you cope when times get tough?

4 Final Tips on Improving Emotional Health

If the above activities and examples were insufficient, we would share a final shortlist of four tips for improving emotional health.

1. Give it time

Emotional health is not something anyone can realize overnight. It took your entire life to develop your subjective understanding of the experience of emotions. It will also take time to create the awareness for emotional regulation and emotional intelligence that build emotional health.

2. Learn from mistakes

Patterns of reaction and response can be tough to break in real-time. When facing a common trigger that creates an eruption of anger or other emotional response that is inappropriate, learns from it. Reflect on what you can do differently the next time you face this trigger.

3. Cultivate kindness

Every other human being is experiencing emotions too. Developing a compassionate outlook when interacting with others permits them to do the same. It leaves room to allow yourself to be human, also.

4. Practice forgiveness

Some people find it cathartic to forgive themselves and others who have harmed them. Though it is not a requirement, forgiveness can open room for emotions to move if they are stuck.

5 Inspiring Quotes

You’re not the only one who’s made mistakes, but they’re the only thing that you can truly call you own.

Billy Joel, Only Human (Second Wind)

If your emotional abilities aren’t in hand, if you don’t have self-awareness, if you are not able to manage your distressing emotions, if you can’t have empathy and have effective relationships, then no matter how smart you are, you are not going to get very far.

Daniel Goleman (as cited in Dozier, 2010)

What stress really does, though, is deplete willpower, which diminishes your ability to control those emotions.

Roy Baumeister

Not only do happy people endure pain better and take more health and safety precautions when threatened, but positive emotions undo negative emotions.

Martin Seligman

The remedy is to look deeper and recognize that we human beings are physically, mentally, and emotionally the same.

Dalai Lama

A Take-Home Message

Emotional health has far-reaching benefits. Where people land on the continuum between languishing and flourishing will significantly depend on their ability to feel, understand, and express their emotions. The incredible thing about emotional health is that everyone can work toward it.

Allowing emotions to move through us as a digestible part of our wellbeing leads us on that continuum toward truly flourishing lives. Everyone can find a place to begin. With dedicated attention and care, emotional health can be prioritized and realized.

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