Coaching Models

Coaching, in its many forms, offers powerful insights for thousands of people around the world.

Whether it’s a project team that aims to optimize performance, a professional struggling to regain balance in their busy life, or the leader of a Fortune 100 company delivering a new organizational vision, each wishes to develop in some way.

In this article, we introduce a selection of coaching models from the many available. By selecting the right one, you can help transform an individual or group from the state they find themselves in right now to where they want to be in the future.

The GROW Coaching Model

The GROW model was created by Sir John Whitmore and colleagues in the late 1980s and has become one of the most popular coaching models for setting goals, improving performance, and coaching (Performance Consultants, 2020).

Whitmore (2017) likened the model to planning a journey (Bates, 2015):

  • Goal – where do you want to be?
  • Reality – where are you now?
  • Options – what could you do to get there?
  • Will – what will you do?

Work with the client to raise awareness and ownership at each stage:

Establish the goal

Define a goal that is motivating, inspiring, and drives success. Perhaps it is behavior that needs to change or an aspiration to be reached.

Examine the reality

Understand where the client is now and identify any barriers that are causing issues. Then recognize strengths, qualities, and resources that may help.

Explore the options

Consider the options for moving forward. Challenge the individual or group with imaginative coaching questions.

For example, if money were no object, what would you do? If time were not a factor, how would you proceed? What other options are there?

Establish the will

Now that we have a list of options, agree on the actions, timing, accountability, and reporting. The client must commit to what they will do next.

The coach is not there to solve the client’s problems or overcome their challenges but to facilitate and help them select the best options.

While relatively straightforward, the GROW model is incredibly powerful, but only if the coach ensures:

  1. that the goal is genuinely inspiring,
  2. that the client considers the present before looking at the options, and
  3. that they fully commit.

For additional detail, read John Whitmore’s Coaching for Performance: The Principles and Practice of Coaching and Leadership (2017), available on Amazon.

Written by one of the pioneers of coaching, Whitmore uses practical examples from coaching and business to take the reader on a journey through the GROW model. His development program Coaching for Performance has been delivered in 23 languages in 40 countries and continues to transform the relationship between companies and their employees.

TIP: In its traditional application, the GROW model assumes that the coach is not an expert in the client’s situation. This means that the coach must act as a facilitator, helping the client select the best options, and not offering advice or direction.

When leaders coach their team members or act as mentors to them, this may or may not apply. On one hand, it’s more powerful for people to draw conclusions for themselves, rather than having these conclusions thrust upon them. On the other hand, as a team leader, you’ll often have the expert knowledge to offer. Also, it’s your job to guide team members to make decisions that are best for your organization.

Instructional Coaching Models

Instructional coaching models arose out of the need to facilitate teacher professional development and promote accelerated learning in students – particularly those at risk of being ‘left behind’ (Desimone & Pak, 2016).

Instructional coaches have proved successful in assisting teachers in implementing response-to-intervention models to support students with additional needs.

The Instructional Coaching Model promotes good teaching practices and student achievement through the following five features:

  • Content focus
    Focus on how activities can help students learn the subject matter.
  • Active learning
    Implement approaches (presentations, etc.) that promote observation and feedback rather than passive listening.
  • Coherence
    Drive consistency and coherence around the school’s goals, content, and activities, in line with district and state guidance.
  • Sustained duration
    Make ongoing professional development available to teachers.
  • Collective participation
    Provide interactive learning communities that group teachers by grade, subject, or school.

There are several coaching books available that explore and promote the use of instructional models and encourage the partnership between coach and teacher:

1. Student-Centered Coaching – Diane Sweeney

This book focuses on the impact school-based coaching can have on student needs rather than taking the approach that teachers need to be ‘fixed.’

By improving assessment, instruction, and planning, Sweeney offers a timely and vital approach to student-centered coaching.

The text provides encouragement and clear direction for the development of both students and staff.

Find the book on Amazon.

2. The Art of Coaching – Elena Aguilar

The Art of Coaching provides the theory behind instructional coaching and a set of practical school coaching tools.

It’s a valuable resource for both new and experienced educators to implement professional development programs in any school.

Not only does Aguilar offer a model for transformational change, but the book also addresses the needs of learners from all backgrounds.

Find the book on Amazon.

3. Instructional Coaching – Jim Knight

This is an instructional guide that promotes school culture through research-led instructional coaching, with a mixture of resources and first-person stories.

Delving deep into instructional intervention, Knight addresses some of the challenges and obstacles associated with implementing school improvement programs.

Knight has consulted and presented across Canada and Japan, providing valuable professional learning guidance for instructional coaches.

Find the book on Amazon.

Group and Team Coaching Models

In Group and Team Coaching, Hall (2013) reminds us that coaching a group is not the same as coaching several individuals. A group isn’t merely an extension of one-to-one coaching.

group is a collection of individuals often, but not always, from within a single organization or business. They may share similar interests or goals and be tightly structured or loosely organized.

And this needs to be taken into account when coaching; a group may rate high on cohesiveness or be lacking. The key then is their inter-dependence (Hall, 2013). The members are dependent on one another; how they communicate, relate, learn, act, and decide together matters.

The coach enables the group to develop as a team, creating more than the individuals’ sum.

team results from individuals forming strong, successful relationships and a close connection between its members and the overarching goal. Teams are collaborative, and while it does not mean that there aren’t disagreements or clashes of personality, the team can mostly manage conflict.

While group and team coaching aims are similar and indeed overlap, it is perhaps a difference in maturity. The goal of group coaching, as well as online group coaching, is to provide the foundation, individual, and group mindsets, principles, and skills to progress to being aligned as a team.

And there are degrees within group coaching, including, for example:

  • Learning group – While the subject under discussion unites the group, they arrive and leave as individuals. Each person relates more closely to the leader of that group than to one another.
  • Training group – The coach moves from training the group on a particular topic to delivering an experience or practical demonstration. While the trainer still has a one-way relationship with each individual, exercises are shared.
  • Development group – The goal is to form a functional and supportive group. Individual differences fade into insignificance, and membership of the group is established, along with a clear identity.

Team coaching also has levels of maturity, including:

  • Division Group – The aim is to coach an entire group – business unit, team, or department – to develop the skills needed to improve performance by being more efficient and effective. The ultimate goal is to implement self-management within the team.
  • Corporate group – As part of a team, the individual is coached or trained as though they are the business itself.
  • Team coaching – Take a productive team and turn it into a high-performing one. For this to happen, each member must feel aligned to the team and its goals, be part of the team spirit, and collaborate successfully.

The coach’s vision is to take a group of people and help them transcend their identities to become part of a collective identity, developing and freeing the potential of both the individual and the group (Hall, 2013).

There are several informative guides about group coaching; try out the following:

1. Group and Team Coaching (Meta-Coaching) – Michael Hall

This excellent and insightful guide to group and team coaching explains the need for cohesive, high-performing teams.

Recognizing that coaching a group is significantly different from coaching individuals, Hall addresses the many challenges of group dynamics.

By learning how to think and solve problems, groups become teams and become the driving force behind successful organizations.

Find the book on Amazon.

2. Group and Team Coaching: The Secret Life of Groups – Christine Thornton

This book provides useful insights for coaches working with groups, teams, managers, and leaders to overcome team coaching pitfalls and put in place coaching interventions.

Using her psychology background, Thornton explores the invisible processes behind group dynamics and how to overcome obstacles along the way.

The sections on how to design coaching interventions are particularly valuable.

Find the book on Amazon.

3 Models for Life Coaches

While there are many life coaching models available, the following list summarizes three of the most popular (we introduced the GROW model earlier).

These models are also popular in other forms of coaching:

CLEAR

The CLEAR model was developed by Peter Hawkins in the early 1980s and is considered a viable alternative to the GROW model (Bates, 2015):

  • Contract
    Establish the desired outcomes, and the session’s scope, and agree on the coaching process.
  • Listen
    The coach is encouraged to listen and only engage to ‘nudge’ and steer the conversation toward the topics under review.
  • Explore
    Examine in more detail how the individual is affected by the situation.
  • Action
    Get the individual to commit to changes and internalize their new outlook.
  • Review
    Perform follow-ups with the individual to assess how things are progressing and identify what worked well in the coaching sessions.

STEPPA

The STEPPA model was created by Dr. Angus McLeod to leverage a situation’s context and individuals’ emotions to define and work toward new goals (Bates, 2015):

  • Subject
    Understand the context and the subject under discussion.
  • Target identification
    Arrive at a clear goal or outcome (define using SMART).
  • Emotion
    Understand if the emotions associated are going to boost or block progress toward the goal.
  • Perception
    Explore the bigger picture. How does this goal sit within the broader context of the client’s life?
  • Plan/Pace
    Define a series of steps to reach the goal and the timescales upon which this is based.
  • Action/Amend
    Review the decisions made, understand what has been learned, and whether the plan is sensible.

OSCAR

The OSCAR model was initially described by Gilbert and Whittleworth in 2002. Rather than focus on the problem, this model focuses on the solution (Gilbert & Whittleworth, 2009):

  • Outcome
    Understand the desired outcome and the individual’s long-term goals.
  • Situation
    Help the client become aware of their skills, abilities, level of knowledge, and how they feel.
  • Choices
    What are the options for reaching the desired outcome?
  • Actions
    Identify the improvements and how best to make them.
  • Reviews
    Hold regular reviews to ensure the client is on track.

Each model’s steps are similar – understanding the goals, the context, the skillset, the next steps, and a review of the success so far – and may be chosen based on coach and client preference, and prior experience.

1. Performance Coaching Toolkit – Will Thomas and Angus McLeod

Try out this toolkit for useful strategies and tools for improving as a professional coach, manager, or parent. The guidance is clear, practical, and impactful.

Whether readers are new to the subject or seasoned practitioners, Thomas and McLeod offer essential insights into the developing field of performance coaching and the coaching journey.

Find the book on Amazon.

2. The OSCAR Coaching Model: Simplifying Workplace Coaching – Andrew Gilbert and Karen Whittleworth

While focused on managers, the OSCAR Coaching Model provides an in-depth guide to using the OSCAR model in any situation.

The text also provides useful clarification of the manager’s role during workplace coaching and how to improve staff performance.

The OSCAR model offers a practical framework for ongoing performance evaluation and tools for continuous development.

Find the book on Amazon.

For Executive and Career Coaching

Executives can often benefit from coaching to improve existing skills, develop new ones, get ready for advancement, overcome blockers, and improve overall performance.

Career coaching specifically looks at how to achieve professional goals while maintaining a level of work-life balance.

While the GROW, OSCAR, and CLEAR models (introduced above) are all valuable in a career and executive coaching, the following models are practical and powerful alternatives (modified from Bates, 2015):

Self-directed learning

Richard Boyatzis recognized the tricky balance between the executive’s individual needs – including their self-development and growth – and those of the organization (Bates, 2015):

And yet, leaders have control over who they are and how they act.

Boyatzis describes five points that the executive or manager should be encouraged to consider.

Each can lead to awareness and the need for change:

  • Considering their ideal self
    Challenge the business’s expectations and consider who they would like to be.
  • Recognizing their present self
    How do they and others see themselves? It may be quite different.
  • Deciding what change is needed
    Focus on what is required to reach the desired outcome.
  • An experiment in doing things differently
    Challenge existing ways of working and find opportunities to try alternatives.
  • Developing relationships with those they value and trust
    Find others who can provide support.

Team roles

According to Meredith Belbin, for individuals and teams to be successful, there are key roles and functions to perform (Bates, 2015):

Work with executives, managers, and team members to understand if the following roles are in place. Without them, projects and transformation may falter:

  • Co-ordinator
    Establishes priorities and agendas.
  • Shaper
    Maintains urgency and momentum to meet timelines.
  • Plant
    Comes up with new and exciting ideas.
  • Implementer
    Turns the theory into practice.
  • Team worker
    Helps form the team and resolve issues.
  • Finisher
    As people become tired near the end of the project, this person pushes through to the finish line.
  • Specialist
    Provides essential expertise.

Models for Leadership Development

Leadership can be a difficult, even lonely position. Coaching can help provide a new perspective and support for difficult decisions.

Try the following two models with leaders to improve their ability to balance the demands of different aspects of the company while improving performance:

Action-centered leadership

According to John Adair, leaders are continually juggling the needs of the task, individuals, and the team (Bates, 2015):

  • Task
    Setting goals, planning, assigning work, resourcing, monitoring, and controlling.
  • Team
    Encouraging cooperation, developing team spirit, and resolving conflict.
  • Individual
    Counseling and mentoring staff while ensuring their training needs are met.

His belief was that good leadership, rather than being a trait, can be coached. The coach is encouraged to challenge the leader to think about:

  • What task and goal-oriented activities have they performed? If they were effective, what factors blocked or helped?
  • What team-related activities do they get involved in, and how have they been effective at promoting team spirit, resolving conflict, etc.?
  • What individual development has been put in place?

When there are clashes between the three elements, prioritization must occur based on the organization’s needs.

Transformational leadership

Bernard Bass described transformational leadership as using enthusiasm for a shared vision to create an emotional bond between leader and follower.

Therefore, organizational performance would benefit from emphasizing and “recognizing the needs, aspirations, and potential contributions of their followers” (Bates, 2015).

The leader must, therefore, be coached to consider several critical values by getting them to understand:

  • That they must act according to sound morals and ethics – charisma alone is not enough
  • They need to be seen as a role model, maintaining integrity and high standards so that followers believe in them
  • The importance of recognizing and prioritizing the needs of their followers

Directive Coaching Models

While all coaching models seek change at an individual, group, or organizational level, they all exist somewhere on a scale between directive and non-directive.

In directive coaching, the coach must have some knowledge or expertise in the context under discussion. For example, if working with an athlete, some knowledge of sports, training, and competition is essential. The coach will set goals at an individual and group level and monitor success, supplying feedback appropriately.

Non-directive coaching sessions are reflective and involve problem-solving. The individual or group is the expert, setting the agenda and ultimately the path to success.

The models discussed in this article have been biased toward non-directive coaching models. After all, they offer a highly successful approach, helping to develop confidence in the client’s ability to make the right decisions and overcome existing and future challenges.

A Look at the Peer Coaching Model

The psychologist Albert Bandura (1997) suggested that it is possible to successfully modify an individual’s behavior by observing others.

He suggested that witnessing our peers – friends, family, and colleagues – perform an act improves our self-efficacy, thereby increasing our belief in our ability to execute the behavior.

Using role models or peer coaching can be a potent way of promoting self-belief in our clients. In turn, as a coach, it is crucial to display the sort of behavior we are encouraging in our clients; for example, language, lack of bias, openness, friendliness, and warmth all have important parts to play.

When using role models, choose wisely. Avoid stereotypes, as they reinforce bias already present; instead, ask the person to consider people in their lives who have had a positive impact.

10 Effective Coaching Models & Techniques

While there are a plethora of coaching models utilized across the globe, here is a list of some of the most popular coaching models:

GROW COACHING MODEL

This is likely the most famous coaching model, which was first developed by John Whitmore. Four major stages encompass this model: selecting a goal, analyzing your current skills, determining options to achieve the goal, and finally selecting the best option and committing to it.

The GROW model can be easily remembered, as it stands for: goal, reality, options, and wrap up. You can easily revisit any of these steps if necessary.

OSKAR COACHING MODEL

This model (sometimes called the OSCAR coaching model)  originates from prior solution-focused approaches; it focuses on solutions rather than problems.

There are five steps to this technique: outcome (evaluating the length of your coaching sessions, how long one needs to work to achieve a goal), scaling (evaluating how far along the client is in relation to their goals), know-how (understanding skills needed to achieve the goal), action (taking steps to achieve the goal/commitment to action), and finally review (optimizing the strategy).

CLEAR COACHING MODEL

This model is initially developed by Peter Hawkins. It focuses on helping clients truly understand their goals. In CLEAR coaching, you must listen to the client to understand their strengths and weak points.

Then, explore potential ways to take action and create a plan for achieving the desired outcome. Finally, ask your clients for feedback on how to improve future coaching sessions.

STEPPA COACHING MODEL

Developed by Angus McLeod, one of the pioneers of coaching, STEPPA stands for subject, target, emotion, perception, plan, pace, and action. When coaching individuals with this method, first identify their goals and skills.

Then, set a SMART goal. Use emotions to your advantage in this model. Coaches guide clients on the best way to achieve a goal and later create a step-by-step plan to continue forward. Since it is impossible to plan perfectly, adapting to one’s environment is also taught and encouraged by STEPPA coaches.

BLOCK REMOVAL COACHING

This type of coaching is most effective when individuals are unsure, anxious, or resistant to growth. Usually, this causes people to think negatively and abandon their goals.

Coaches work to instill confidence in their clients and overcome any potential challenges they encounter throughout their journey.

3-D COACHING MODEL

This type of coaching helps individuals determine what they truly want in life and within their careers. It also helps individuals identify their unique strengths and talents.

Then, coaches work to find ways to achieve the goals their clients set for themselves with the help of their existing strengths.

INNOVATION COACHING MODEL

The coaching business is what this model focuses on. These coaches enjoy working with innovators and entrepreneurs, so it may not be the best model for team coaching.

It focuses on getting people comfortable with the risk/the unknown, experimentation, creativity, and innovating.

BIGGER THINKING MODEL

In this approach to coaching, clients are challenged to achieve more than they ever thought possible.

Coaches boost an individual’s confidence and work on getting their clients comfortable in uncomfortable settings. The client also expands their thinking methods and learns new perspectives.

SHIFT COACHING MODEL

Sometimes, people need a mindset shift to be coached more effectively. This is where the shift model comes in. This model changes the client’s perspective on goal achievement.

They are exposed to new strategies to tackle their goals and challenges. At first, they reevaluate their situation, and later they move forward with a new mindset.

EXECUTIVE COACHING

A bit similar to the innovation coaching method, executive coaching centers around coaching people to become leaders. They evaluate current leadership approaches, create leadership skill development plans, and address specific business and personal challenges.

In the end, this strategy is coaching for performance: leaders consistently reevaluate the impact coaching has on company revenue and profits.

Types of Coaching Models

There are multiple subtypes of coaching methods. They are further categorized by the specific approach each method recommends and who the ideal client is.

Here are some examples of models:

ORGANIZATIONAL & BUSINESS COACHING MODELS

This coaching model is different from other coaching styles, as it focuses less on the client’s direct goals and more on the entire organization’s needs. It can be a form of team coaching.

This model identifies business goals and establishes strategies individuals and teams can use to achieve those goals. Some of the most common coaching styles can be forms of business coaching.

Example strategies: OSKAR/OSCAR coaching model, STEPPA, and GROW coaching.

LEADERSHIP DEVELOPMENT COACHING MODELS

Leaders need specific coaching approaches to help them succeed. This type of coaching focuses on giving leaders clarity on their company mission and supports executives when making challenging decisions.

Additionally, coaches can offer multiple opportunities for leaders to expand their skillsets for the benefit of their organization. However, they generally focus on improving leadership and communication skills.

Example strategies: action-centered leadership (developed by John Adair), entrepreneurial/innovation coaching, and transformational leadership.

EXECUTIVE CAREER COACHING MODELS

Being an executive often comes with a specific set of struggles that only certain coaches are able to address. One-to-one coaching is the best way to conduct executive coaching, as it is best to be intimate with executives.

Goals are often lofty and challenging with this model, but clients are pushed to achieve more than they ever thought possible. It is a great strategy to use for career development, especially later on in one’s career journey.

Example strategies: calendar-driven coaching, victim vs player coaching, and event-driven coaching.

GROUP AND TEAM COACHING MODELS

Group and team coaching aim to help entire organizations achieve their goals instead of focusing on each person individually. It focuses on communication skills, leadership quality development, and team unity.

Through uniting a team, coaches can boost a business’s productivity and an entire team’s drive, thus driving forward profit and revenue. There is some team coaching pitfalls, though, which is mainly that it is not a personalized coaching strategy.

Example strategies: high commitment and big ticket sales coaching, coaching large/established companies, and peer coaching.

How to Measure & Improve Coaching Models

Measuring a coaching process’s success can be challenging, but it does not have to be.

Consider the value a coach brings to you. Ask yourself which new information you learned, if you could practically apply the new knowledge, how often you are using this knowledge, whether or not there is a visible impact on your business, performance, or career, and whether or not the coaching brings more value to you then the price of coaching.

You can use specific metrics to evaluate a coach’s impact on your performance. To do this, refer back to your goals. If you set specific SMART goals, then measuring whether or not you accomplished your goal should be simple.

For instance, if your goal was to boost your productivity by 25% in the next 3 months, consider seeing how much your performance is increasing.

If you are a writer, did the number of words written raise by 25% in 3 months? If you are a salesman, did you increase the number of calls made by 25%? If yes, then you can clearly tell the coaching is helping you achieve your goals.

If you want to improve your coaching process, ensure that your coach’s approach to motivation aligns with your personality. Also, consider how specific your goals are. If they are not SMART, start using the SMART goal setting method with your coach. It will make progress tracking simpler.

5 Books for Coaching and Coachers

Coaching books can be a great source of inspiration and a detailed way to learn more about the art of coaching. A few of the best books on coaching include:

1. The OSCAR Coaching Model: Simplifying Workplace Coaching – Andrew Gilbert and Karen Whittleworth

While the OSCAR model focuses on managers, it can be applied to any coaching process. The text clarifies a manager’s role during coaching and gives tips to help managers increase employee performance. Readers are given a practical framework to evaluate current performance and continuously improve.

2. Performance Coaching Toolkit – Will Thomas and Angus McLeod

This book outlines a toolkit full of useful coaching strategies and ways to improve, whether you are an employee, manager, leader, or parent. The tips and straightforward and simple to apply.

The outline is useful for most individuals; whether you are completely new to coaching or if you are a professional, McLeod and Thomas will likely teach you something new about coaching approaches.

3. The Gifts of Imperfection: Let Go of Who You Think You’re Supposed to Be and Embrace Who You Are – Brene Brown Ph.D. L.M.S.W.

Brene Brown’s book is specifically about life coaching. Brown presents the steps necessary to live a wholehearted life, or a life that is carefree and free of fear. She divides her book into guideposts, which help readers live a more authentic life with simple tips.

There are usually multiple components to each guidepost, and the book has sold millions of copies due to its easy-to-follow advice.

4. Grit: The Power of Passion and Perseverance – Angela Duckworth

Most goals require persistence and growth to be overcome. Duckworth explains how one can use the power of grit to destroy any goal you or your coach sets for you. She utilizes personal, celebrity, and historical examples to make a compelling case for grit application in coaching.

All in all, the text manages to be both lighthearted and insightful, as it provides a multitude of ways character-building plays a role in coaching and goal attainment.

5. Mindset: The New Psychology of Success – Carol Dweck

Mindset is undoubtedly key in succeeding as a coach. Carol Dweck is a world-famous Stanford trained psychologist and in this guide, Dweck explains the power of mindset and how every single activity we partake in is affected by our mindset.

She categorizes mindsets into two main categories: the fixed and growth mindsets. She describes how individuals can change their lives and achieve success through a mindset change. Many of the strategies described by Dweck can be utilized by coaches to help their clients overcome mental barriers.

Some Popular Approaches from Psychology

The following approaches are taken from the field of psychology and will provide coaches with additional tools to work with their clients successfully in helping clients achieve their goals. These approaches are popular with therapists and are generally backed by research as to their efficacy. Although there are many psychological approaches which can help you as a coach, we review three here to give you a better idea of three main approaches that will aid your coaching.

Solution Focused Approach

Solutions focuses approach is based on finding solutions to problems rather than focusing on the problems themselves. Very little time is spent actually discussing the problem. And instead time and energy is focused on finding possible solutions to the problem. The coach helps the client work through the following techniques to help keep them focused on the future attainment of their goals.

1. Exception Question

The exception question is a technique where the coach helps the client find an “exception” to solving the problem that the client is presenting the coach with. So instead of looking for alternative solutions to a problem a coach will help clients see that there are exceptions in their past where they have successfully dealt with a similar problem. So essentially they empower the client to take action based on what has previously been successful. Since the client has used it in the past they will know that they are capable of using it again in the future. An example would be when a client is having difficulty with their boss and says “I’m not good at dealing with difficult people” and the coach asks them to find an exception to this by finding a time in their past where they’ve dealt with a difficult person successfully. The coach and client then generalize this strategy to the current situation.

2. Miracle Question

The miracle question helps the client envision a possible ideal future when the current problem is under control.

The coach asks the client “if you were to wake up tomorrow and everything was resolved how would things be different? How would your views be different? How would you be different? How would your environment be different?”

This question may seem simple but it is highly effective as it mobilizes the client’s ability to solve their own problem. When a client is able to see how things would be different in the future when the problem isn’t present they’re able to see possible solutions to their problem by making those changes that they see now.

3. Scaling Questions

Scaling questions are when the coach asks the client to rate their issue on a scale of 1 to 10. This approach was used in the OSKAR method above.

Narrative Approach

The narrative approach involves the idea that everyone has a story that they tell themselves about their life. When we write this story in our thoughts this story becomes our reality. So the coach essentially helps the client write a new narrative about their life where things are different.

Their original narrative was shaped by their expectations, beliefs, experiences, and events from their past. But when the alternative story is created it helps the client embrace things which they had not thought about themselves or had not considered as part of their story. The coach helps the client deconstruct beliefs about themselves and reconstruct new beliefs through their story. The client may not even realize that they have an internal “story” that they’ve been saying about themselves their whole life. And so bringing this story into awareness can be powerful in and of itself. But when the story is reconstructed the client can feel radical shifts in how they perceive themselves and their life.

An example of this might be when a client says “I’ve always been a failure. I failed out of college, my marriage failed, and so I can’t do anything successfully”. A coach would help the client see that there are not necessarily truths about the client’s life. Perhaps “failing out of college” gave them an opportunity to pursue their passion and their “marriage failing” allowed them to get out of a dysfunctional relationship. The client can then reconstruct their story to say “Experiences that have seemed like failures have actually been opportunities in disguise.”

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy

Cognitive Behavior Therapy (CBT) is all about understanding the beliefs and thoughts that underlie behaviors. It’s a tool to help client’s change dysfunctional thought patterns (see the “cognitive distortions tool in the appendices for more information about dysfunctional thought patterns). The idea is that people create irrational thought patterns which do not serve them. They may have developed these in response to something in their past but they are no longer effective in their life. So with the help of the therapist the client can become aware of these patterns. Once the client has some awareness of their patterns they can begin to choose new thoughts and behaviors instead.

One common technique in CBT is the ABCs of Irrational Beliefs developed by Albert Ellis, one of the founders of CBT. This process helps clients to analyze their beliefs that have been irrational so that they can open up opportunities to choose new beliefs.

A = Activating Event

The activating event is the situation that the client experiences which results in the irrational beliefs or thinking.

B = Beliefs

Then the client and coach help to identify what beliefs are motivating the client’s irrational thinking in response to the event.

C = Consequences

The client and coach then determine what negative behaviors have resulted from this irrational belief.

Then the client and coach can reinterpret these events thought the lens of more rational beliefs which do not result in negative consequences.

Here’s an example:

A = Activating Event

A client comes in and states that she was not invited to a friend’s birthday party and felt terribly about being left out.

B = Beliefs

The client is able to identify that she believes that she’s been purposefully left out from her friend’s party (personalization and making assumptions), that not having an invite means that her friendship is over (catastrophizing), and that she believes that friends always betray her (generalization).

C = Consequences

Because of her irrational beliefs the client withdrew and stopped returning her friend’s phone calls for 2 weeks. And then her friends stopped calling her.

Reinterpretation:

If the would have checked in with her friend she could have easily found out that the friend did not mean to leave her out and that she attempted to call to apologize (which was one of the calls the client wouldn’t’ answer). The client would then see that her friendship is not over and that it was all a mistake, not malicious in any way. And the client could take responsibility for not responding to her friends and how this led her friends to stop calling her rather than the calls stopping because her friends will always betray her.

10 Inspirational Quotes about Coaching

  1. “In a growth mindset, challenges are exciting rather than threatening. So rather than thinking, oh, I’m going to reveal my weaknesses, you say, wow, here’s a chance to grow.” – Carol Dweck
  2. “I learned this, at least, by my experiment; that if one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams, and endeavors to the life which he has imagined, he will meet with a success unexpected in common hours.” – Henry David Thoreau
  3. “A great nation is like a great man: When he makes a mistake, he realizes it. Having realized it, he admits it. Having admitted it, he corrects it. He considers those who point out his faults, as his most benevolent teachers. He thinks of his enemy as the shadow that he himself casts.” – Lao Tsu
  4. “There is the true joy of life, to be used by a purpose recognized by yourself as a mighty one; to be thoroughly worn out before being thrown on the scrap heap; to be a force of nature instead of a feverish, selfish little clod of ailments and grievances complaining that life will not devote itself to making you happy.” – George Bernard Shaw
  5. “We need to accept that we won’t always make the right decisions, that we’ll screw up royally sometimes – understanding that failures are not the opposite of success –  it’s part of success.” – Arianna Huffington
  6. “Coaching is unlocking people’s potential to maximize their own performance. It is more often helping them to learn rather than teaching them.” – John Whitmore
  7. ”When you encourage others, you in the process are being encouraged because you’re making a commitment to that person’s life. Encouragement really does make a difference.” – Zig Ziglar
  8. “A bird sitting on a tree is never afraid of the branch breaking, because its trust is not on the branch, but on its own wings. Always believe in yourself.” – Charlie Wardle
  9. “What keeps me going is not winning, but the quest for reaching potential in myself as a coach and my kids as divers. It’s the pursuit of excellence.” – Ron O’Brien
  10. “Who, exactly, seeks out a coach? If you ask a coach the answer is usually the same: Winners who want even more out of life.” – Abigail Pickus

A Take-Home Message

Many of the models introduced in this article offer similar opportunities. For the coach, they provide a structure in which the client can capture where they are now, along with their destination. They can use it to plan and plot the next action and illuminate the path to where they want to get.

The model that works well for one person may not be suitable for another; after all, the client – whether an individual or a group – must be brought into the process. They need to be ‘fired up to engage in the task of transformation. It will take work, focus, and commitment.

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